Love’s Sugar and Spice [Announcement]

Reading time: 3 – 5 minutes

LSSlogo Hello! I little while back I asked your opinion on what I should do with this site and what should move to a new domain. Several of you responded and I thank you so much for doing so. However, I decided on an option I had not even considered at the time.

I will be doing a welcome post tomorrow on my new site, Love’s Sugar and Spice. The new site incorporates buddypress and multisite for a complete user experience that I’ve not seen else where for romance sites. I will be sharing my tips, advice, and thoughts on relationships and romance on the main blog there. Monday posts (after tomorrow’s) will be an Ask Jenn Post where I answer questions emailed to me or questions from the forums area. There will also be posts on Wednesdays and Saturdays.

The best thing about Loves Sugar and Spice is that you can become a member. Members have the ability to communicate privately with other members they have friended via PM. They will also be able to start their own blog within a few days of launch. There is also the ability to start groups and post to the groups or post on forums. The forums are linked to the groups for posting and replying.

I will still write here. I will pick my best posts of the week series back up starting sometime in September. Other than that, I will post as I feel compelled to. I will be writing more about my life in general. There may even be a blog about blogging here and there.

With that being said, I’ve set up separate twitter accounts for each blog. If you only want updates from one or the other, follow the one that applies. If you want to get them all, follow my personal one. I’d not follow any of the other two if you are following my personal account. You’ll get lots of the same tweets if you do ;)

Gurl’s Asylum on Twitter

Loves Sugar and Spice on Twitter

Jennifer on Twitter

The site is open to be viewed now, if you’d like a “sneak peek”. There are no blogs and only myself and a friend as members. She was sweet enough to help me test out some things and give some advice.

I must thank Eleanor Edwards of Heaven and El and Give A Brick as well as Theresa of Picsiechick for all their help! From brainstorming the idea with me, to helping me with some color suggestions to simple encouragement, these women have been a great help to me while getting this all going. You ladies rock.

Welcome back! So good to see you again. If you've not subscribed to my RSS feed or by Email, I hope you take a minute to do so. Thanks for coming back. Looking forward to seeing you again soon!

Tags: Blog Announcement, Love's Sugar and Spice, Relationship Advice Community, Romance Advice Community

Problogger’s Copywriting Scorecard for Bloggers: A Review

Reading time: 5 – 8 minutes

scorecard Every time I sit down to write an article for the web, I think of all the wonderfully written articles I read every day. Then I freeze for a bit. I start telling myself I could never write that well. That it will take years to get to that point. That my copywriting will always be sub par. It’s one of my biggest barriers to writing and to making an impact on the web.

Let’s face it, writing good copy is not easy, right? Blog copywriting becomes a ton easier if you use Problogger’s Copywriting Scorecard for Bloggers. I bought a copy two nights ago and read it from cover to cover. Now I feel better as I sit here writing this because I have some blog copy writing secrets from Problogger’s Darren Rowse and Devine Writing’s Glenn Murray. Now you can have those secrets too!

Blogging Copywriting Secrets Revealed!

The Copywriting Scorecard for Bloggers is packed full of “secrets” to great copywriting. You will find many surprising gems in this 59 page powerhouse of tips and tricks. Some of the things you will learn while reading include:

  • How many keywords should you target at once
  • Where should you put your keywords in titles and subheadings for the best results with skimmers and search engines
  • How to correctly use common problem words such as
    • Its and It’s
    • Affect and Effect
    • Advice and Advise
  • Why using contractions as you write is a good thing
  • How important is keyword density
  • And so much more

Things That Could Have Been Better

I was expecting more writing by Darren himself. The book seems to have been written entirely by Glenn Murray. Once I gave it a little thought, this arrangement made sense. Murray is the copywriting expert. I am sure Darren had a major role in the creation of this book or he wouldn’t have put his name on it. I just missed Darren’s writing style a bit.

There are also some points that are repeated a time or two in the book. This may annoy some, but to me it just reinforced the importance of those points. They weren’t repeated very close together in most cases, so I likely spotted it because I did read this in a single sitting.

Finally, some of this may be stuff you already know if you have read any of the million articles on how to write for the web. However, I am certain you will find some points that you aren’t familiar with. I also believe that using the scorecard itself will help you find areas that you can improve on.

Things I Liked

One of the major surprises for me was how readable this book actually is. Most of us think of copywriting as a boring subject. This book made the subject easy to understand and compelling to read. I found myself looking forward to using the scorecard on my next post.

Another great point about the book is the scorecard, of course. There are a full 63 areas for you to score your writing upon, then you total it up to get your score out a possible 100. It has references back to the page where the topic being scored is covered so you can refresh your memory or fix something you skipped. It also has recommendations based on your score that give you a good idea of which topics you need to focus on to improve.

This book could be used by any writer, not just bloggers. Using your knowledge of your field will be necessary in discarding any tips that won’t work  for your type of writing. However, I believe a lot of it would apply across the board.

Finally, I adore the price. It’s on sale for $9.95 until September 3, 2010. I’d have bought it at the undiscounted price of $14.95. Either price point is a steal. Even at a mere 59 pages, The Copywriting Scorecard for Bloggers is packed full of easy to implement tips to improve your writing.

Conclusion

The Copywriting Score Card for Bloggers is a great product for all writers, especially those writing for the web. It shows many blog copywriting secrets in a way that is easily understood. The topics are actionable and often have a nice tip to help you use the topic better.

I would highly recommend getting this book no matter your experience level. Having the scorecard to help show you places you can improve your blog copywriting is more than worth the price.

Read more about the blog copywriting secrets the book explores. Happy copywriting!

PS: This blog article gets a 80 out of 100. Not too bad for a novice like me :) Now to take my score and see where to focus my efforts to improve! :)

Tags: Blog Copywriting, Copywriting Score Card for Bloggers Review, Copywriting Secrets

Talking Email Marketing with My Mom

Reading time: 2 – 3 minutes

Email Marketing I had a strange conversation with my mom while we were riding down the road the other day. It’s not unusual for us to have strange conversations but I never thought I would be explaining email  marketing to my mom.

It happened because I was checking my voice mail and to my surprise one was from the new auto-responder service I am switching to. It was a simple welcome call that gave some web addresses and phone numbers for when I needed help. I was impressed to say the least.

When my jaw dropped, mom gave me a bit of a funny look so I explained it was a call from the email provider I’d just subscribed to and start telling her why I was impressed. When I mentioned having to pay for it in a month, she looked aghast and asked why I had to pay for email.

So I gave a pretty simple explanation. I used the example of emails she gets from some crochet websites she likes. I explained that those mails go out automagically in a certain sequence. She seemed to get it, which was very cool.

It was cool to talk with her in a little more detail about what I am doing. I usually just use general terms when talking to most of my friends or family about this whole building a website and using it to make money journey I am on. It’s just easier and faster. I often just talk about the website building and posting part. I don’t have much patience for people telling me that I won’t make it and so forth, so I just don’t give them the opportunity.

I’ve got a lot more big changes coming up. I have been working hard on my new site, which I am going to have done before my next college term starts. That’s not far way, just so’s you know ;) I will also be working on sharing more interesting blogging information with my email subscribers. Who knows what else will come my way?

Your Turn: Any thing you want to share with us? Big plans, a great day you had, or even a little something that made your day? Share in the comments below. I love sharing the happy moments :)

Tags: Changes, Conversations, Email Marketing

The Asylum Report Card – July 2010

Reading time: 2 – 4 minutes

Grade Wow, another month has whooooooshed by! As you guys know, I had a rough month. There have been quite a few days that there were no new posts. I also wasn’t promoting as much as I usually do. Because of this, July’s report card shows decreases in some areas that make me a not so happy camper. There are some other interesting things that happened this month too. Check out the screen shot below.

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So we can see that Page Views and Visits went down. Which I expected. However, Pages per Visit, Average Time on Site and Bounce rate all moved in the right direction to make me a happy camper.

The crazy thing is that I have no idea why this happened. I am glad it did. However, without knowing a possible reason, I am unsure I can duplicate this or even maintain in the coming month. Only time will tell.

The other bad thing this past month is I didn’t hit my guest posting goals of 2 to 4. I actually had 0 guest posts up.Bad blogger..no cookies! That probably also hurt my page views and visits :(

Now, what am I going to do to get the momentum back here on The Asylum? My plans look something like this:

  • Start commenting on other blogs again.
  • Utilize my list of subscribers, and start giving them the content I’ve promised.
  • Get at least two guest posts into the blogosphere. Ones on Cantankerous Old Coots don’t count anymore, either ;)
  • Post at least three times a week here.
  • Work on moving the blogging about blogging to a new domain, once the financials come in for that.

My Goals for the coming month include:

  • Get or exceed 400 visitors
  • Get or exceed 900 page views
  • Keep other stats at current levels, at a minimum.
  • Finish the move of the blogging about blogging stuff by end of the month.
  • Inform email subscribers how to change to the blogging about blogging site’s list once that site is up.
  • Have fun again.

Your Turn: Have your stats for last month been satisfactory? What will you be doing to improve your key stats?

Tags: Blog Month In Review, Blog Report Card, Stat Review

5 Awesome Things About Blogging

Reading time: 3 – 4 minutes

Grouchy Face With all the complaining, whining, and bitching I’ve done about blogging lately, I bet a lot of newer people to this site are wondering why do I blog if I hate it so much. I don’t hate blogging…In fact, I love to blog when I am in the zone. Lately, I’ve been in the blogging slump zone which makes it hard to see the things I enjoy about this adventure I am on.

Today we are going to go a different route…I want to tell you about the things that make blogging so awesome. Let’s see how many good things about blogging I can come up with! This should help turn my frown upside down ;)

  1. Helping someone
    This is the best thing of all. I love it when someone tells me I’ve helped them in some way. If I made them think, helped them see a new way to do something, or just made them smile…it makes all the not so great stuff seem silly and makes me feel good.
  2. Meeting new people
    I have met so many awesome people through blogging and commenting and getting socially jiggy with it. I’ve gotten support, inspiration, and even a free resource or two from friends I’ve made in the blogosphere. I am even friendly with the Queen and King of Blogostan ;)
  3. Doing something creative
    I’ve always envied creative people. Blogging helps me be creative, even though it’s not necessarily the type of creative that I envy. It can be so much fun coming up with a title that just begs to have a post written. Oh when I get that idea that just rawks my world…oh yeah! That’s the good stuff!
  4. Learning
    I learn a little something new every day. Sometimes I find something new when I am looking around for inspiration for a post. Sometimes the learning comes from a great article someone shared on Twitter. Sometimes it comes when I am talking to the people I’ve been blessed to meet through this blogging thing.
  5. Interaction
    When I get a new comment or someone shares my stuff…It’s like Christmas and I am 5 years old again! I love to see what others think. I love to know when others see something I don’t. I love to just get to know the people who are reading what I put out here.

I could probably come up with more, but they would be variations of the five above. I really love sharing things with you all. It’s even more fun when you have something to say and share that with me :)

Your Turn: If you blog, what are your favorite things that blogging gives you? If you don’t blog, what do you enjoy about my place that keeps you coming back?

P.S. If you want to know more about me and why I started blogging, you can find that in my free e-book Budget Blogging. You just need to share your email with me and the book is yours :) There’s a form below, or click the name of the e-book, and go to the bottom of the page :)

Image Credit: © Madartists | Dreamstime.com

Tags: blogging slump, getting out of the blogging slump, Good Things about blogging

Maximize your SEO without the headaches

Reading time: 3 – 4 minutes

Blog Post Engineering Cover

Today I am to talk to you a bit about a product I use that is getting updated today. Its Blog Post Engineering by Dave Doolin, and it helps you to get the mechanics of publishing your awesome posts down to a science.

You already have that? I thought so too. But to paraphrase author’s own words, most of us have and do use our blogs like public word documents. That’s so not going to get your awesome posts out to the public as well as it would if you had the publishing art down as well as you do the writing! With BPE, you will find some of the secrets of publishing your post to its finest potential.

So, how does this product help you? Lets take a look at a couple of quick points!

  • It will take the worry about SEO out of the writing process and put it in the publishing, which is where it belongs.
  • unSEO-  The concept helps you deal with the most basic form of SEO, which actually improves your writing. Even if there were no search engines to optimize for, the tasks presented in this product would help your writing become it’s shiny best!
  • You get a handy check list to help you be sure you’ve included everything!

Those are just a very few of the things you will learn to help you take your blog to a higher level of SEO ranking while making writing fun again! No more worrying so much about if you have used your keywords enough with in the post…wouldn’t that be a relief?

I also have it on very good authority this will be the last release at its current price! So you should get in now before it goes up in price. Dave is awesome in that he grandfathers us all in, so we get the updates for free, for life. My good authority also tells me the next release will include multi-media, which will take this ultra-valuable resource to new heights I can only imagine.

Get Blog Post Engineering at its awesomely low price for $19.99. You are getting WAY more value than I can even begin to describe! Oh and the bonuses are to die for!

P.S. He also has a great affiliate plan which I am a part of. Yup..all the links are affiliate links. You still get the awesome low price, and I make a few bucks as well. That is a total win/win! Be sure to join the plan once you see how helpful this book is!

Tags: Blog Post Engineering, End the SEO headache, How to easily maximize SEO, Improve your posts with unSEO, SEO for Creative People, unSEO

Six ways blogging is like flying an airplane

Reading time: 4 – 7 minutes

Airplane Take Off A couple of days ago, my family and I stopped at the local airstrip. My nephew wanted to see if there were any planes out. There were, and one was just about ready to take off. I’d never seen a plane take off right in front of me and I have to say that it is a pretty amazing sight.

That got me to thinking about the steps a pilot must go through before take off and how they apply to the things I do, especially blogging. Surprisingly enough, they parallel pretty well with each other. Let’s take a look at the things bloggers can learn from pilots!

  1. Preflight Checklist

    Every pilot has to go through and check out the plane before take off. They have to be sure the landing gear works, the engines are in good shape, there is enough gas to get to a fuel stop or their destination and much more.

    We bloggers should have a pre-blog launch checklist and a pre-publish check list I think. Check lists help you be sure you hit the important things, and are better than relying on memory (mine is horrible!). Each person’s check lists would probably be a bit different depending on their goals, but having one would make life easier, don’t you think?

  2. Starting the engines

    Before he can go anywhere, the pilot much start the engines on his plane. For us bloggers, our engines are our brains. Getting those going may sometimes be way harder than starting an engine, but one thing that can help is keeping a list of ideas for later.

  3. Taxi down the Runway

    The next step for our adventurous pilot is to start his voyage down the runway. He will need to get started so he can get to the next step. For the adventuring blogger, she will need to get those ideas flowing. She might put on some music that gets her in the writing mood, go for a walk or to get some exercise, pet the dog…anything that gets her relaxed so her mental magic can begin!

  4. Gain momentum

    As the plan taxis down the runway, our pilot needs to make sure he is speeding up at a rate that will get him to take off speed before he reaches the end of the runway. Now, as bloggers, we don’t have the end of the runway looming at us. But we may have our self-imposed deadlines towering over us. We need to be sure we are writing at a pace that will help us meet our deadlines without stressing us out. This is a difficult task at times, but breaking it down into bite sized pieces can help. You could pre-write on the weekend, polish a day or two later and then schedule when you are done polishing up those awesome posts. The key here is to keep your momentum going by doing something to help your reach your blogging goals every day!

  5. Take Off!

    Once he gains his momentum, the pilot finally gets to leave the ground and get going towards his destination. The blogger does the same when she either puts up her site OR publishes her newest post. Each is a point of take off for her goals. And just like the adventuresome pilot, we get to take off again and again, enjoying the rush of leaving the ground we were on and moving towards the new.

  6. Refueling

    This step is the most important for both the brave pilot and the brave blogger. If the pilot doesn’t know how to gauge when he will need to refuel, he will crash his plane and get hurt. If the blogger doesn’t know when she needs to refuel her mind and soul, she too will crash…just not as spectacularly and with less chance of loosing her life. As a blogger, we need to be sure to take time out to do the things we love that have nothing to do with blogging or our business goals. We need to take time to smell the proverbial roses. If we don’t, we run the risk of burning out and loosing that precious momentum and fire that makes us great.

Your Turn: Can you think of ways to help bloggers with any of the six things mentioned above? Share them in the comments!
Bonus kudos for anyone who takes this idea and changes it up to how these steps apply to running your business or something similar ;)

Image Credit: © Patrick Allen | Dreamstime.com

Tags: Blogging Lessons, Blogging Tips

Aha! Moments and Facing My Fears

Reading time: 4 – 6 minutes

Scared Woman Do you have those moments where something suddenly becomes so clear to you? I have them often and call them either “AHA! moments” or “Light bulb moments”. These moments can literally take my breath away OR leave me speechless. The latter is NOT an easy thing to do, either ;)
Last night and today have spurred two..yes TWO of those moments. Plus some other self realizations. Some things I have realized about myself are

I am more of a perfectionist than I ever knew.
I have a hard time seeing the small steps for wanting the journey to be done.
I am a
fofnoficator.
I am afraid of being…ordinary.
I dislike letting any or all of these stop me from doing my best at things that are important to me, namely blogging.


The first two are pretty easy to work with. For the perfectionism, I just have to take the time to realize when its good enough. Nothing is ever perfect, but it can be just close enough to be satisfying to share. For the seeing the small steps, I will just have to work harder on picking out which step to take now, then the next step…and repeat.

Having fear of failure though…that is killer for me. I’ve never really failed at anything…except when I’ve given up. Oh, I’ve gotten a few F’s on tests or what not, but the class grade has always been at least a B. And now I’ve set myself up for public failure. *shakes in her proverbial boots* That’s the big kahuna that my fear fears most.

What can I do for this fear? Can I learn to work around it? Eh, I do at times. Other times it nearly paralyzes me. I think I realizing that its okay to not make the grade I want can help. I also think seeing that one can not succeed with out failures is something I need to work hard on. How can we measure success if we’ve never failed?


I am still working on the fear of being ordinary. Sometimes I totally dig that I am ordinary. However, with this blogging and working on making a living on my own terms…ordinary isn’t going to be good enough. I will need to push my limits and find that space where my ordinary is someone else’s extraordinary. That is daunting. I don’t know the hows yet, but I know I must so there for I will.

Your Turn: What tips or tricks to you have to help me trounce my fears? I’d love to have your help, just add your tips in the comments!

P.S. My AHA! Moments came while talking with the good people in the Skype Room called the Bloggers Lounge. You can get an invite into the group by  responding in the comments with your Skype name (or you can email me if your more comfortable with that).
Image Credit: © Nicole Weiss | Dreamstime.com

Tags: Clarity, Coming to terms with fears, Facing Fears, Moments of Realization

Site News: Splitting the content

Reading time: 2 – 2 minutes

Man Doing SplitHello!

Though I am not quite ready to get back to the posting grind again, I wanted to ask for your help in making a decision. I had an awesome consult with the wonderful Catherine Caine, and it solidified my wish to make this a more focused blog. Or, most likely, take certain topics to other blog(s) and possibly turn this into my personal blog.

So, what will that mean? It means I will be posting certain topics on different blogs on different domains in the near future. Don’t worry…I will post here with the new URLs plus send an email to those of you on the list with instructions on how to get just the updates you want to get. This will probably mean I will get new Twitter accounts, and use the current one as a place for posting all topics plus my usual banter and shares.

I want to know your thoughts on how I should split stuff up. I value your opinions, since you guys are smart enough to have found this site ;) Vote in the poll below to express your opinion on how I should split this up. You can also comment if you have ideas for domain names for either of the splits or just to add your full opinion on this change.

Tags: Site changes, Site News

My Favorite Posts- Week Ending July 9

Reading time: 8 – 14 minutes

FavPosts Its been another awesome week on the web with tons of great new posts. I wish I could share them ALL with you in this post, but this is about sharing my favorites of the great ones ;) to help keep it short but sweet.

Blogging

Nicholas Cardot at Site Sketch 101 helps us out with a convenient way to credit your image sources. Its pretty simple and I will be implementing it…eventually!

Francisco Rosales at Social Mouths Gives us 13 Quick Tips To Write A Successful Post. Its my favorite number and advice I can use…you can’t beat that ;)

Brandon Connell guest posted at Ice Blue Banana. His post offers us 10 ways to come up with blogging topics. Yup…I am always in need of something to write about!

Jean Sauruer of Virgin Blogger Notes shows us that we can be our own Blogging Fairy by using some quick pre-writing techniques to get that draft started.

Kiesha at We Blog Better gives us some Blogging Tips that are Speedy! Nothing like getting out a great blog post fast :)

Ben Spark helps us realize some major mistakes we need to avoid when offering up a Guest Post to another blogger in his latest over on Blogging Tips Dot Com.

Corbett Barr gives us some milestones we will pass on our way from newbie to A-list bloggers. I’ve hit the foundation ones, but not moved on yet. How about you?

Alex Whaley gives us some tips on how to write a review that sells the product. Always good to find some advice on making a lil money!

Mark Dykeman gives us tips on Mind Mapping which is a great way to get ideas flowing for blogging or just about anything else. I am starting to use this technique and have found Free Mind to have all the features I believe I will ever need…and its really Free!

Dave Navarro reminds us that we need to make sure we are helping the right people, and helps us to break down which people we CAN help and which we need to more or less ignore when they start piping up with complaints that all our stuff isn’t free. And speaking of free, for the price of an email address you get access to his free workbooks with are well worth it. He’s also not going to irritate you will eleventy million emails a week.

Mars Dorian hit my geek weak spot when he posted about spreading your influence by using your geekiness to your advantage. Geeks Unite! ;)

Social Media

Mari Smith posted on Social Media Examiner about Creative ways to increase your Facebook fan base. Some tips here I need to start putting into practice.

Johnny Haydon also posted about Facebook Fans, showing us 8 Simple Ways to Engage Our Fans In Three Minutes or less.

Keith Bloemendall gives us a timely reminder that sometimes people we think are our friends just don’t turn out to be who we think they are in So You Think You Found A Friend.

Mike Stenger put out a free resource to help us with our social media endeavors this week. There’s no sign up or opt-in required, so be sure to check out his 50+ Tips To Boost Your Social Media.

Life, Biz, and Fun stuff.

This week Mashable hit my weak spot with the Top 10 Geekiest Marriage Proposals. Being an unmarried geek, I was so like “Hell Yeah-yah! These kick ass!”

Kelly Diels hit a chord when she talked about the difference between healthy boundaries and disposable friendships and how easy it is to slip into the latter while calling it the first. She came up with a totally AWESOME check list to help us all decide if we are giving up too soon on a relationship of any type as well.

Miriam Cisse has just launched her e-book translation service, and is offering a free translation to a lucky duck. Just follow the easy instructions! Best of luck if you enter :)

Robert Bravery made me chuckle with this long-standing graphic showing how women are the root of all problems also see one that shows we are also the root of all evil…slightly changed version of this one. Both are cute!

Over on Blondish.net, Nile Flores shows us 12 basic tools online business owners should check out. I don’t agree with ALL of them, but most are great tools!

Your Turn: Did any of these posts move or inspire you to do something different? Do you have a favorite that didn’t make my list? Tell me all about your thoughts on these articles and others I missed in the comments!

Tags: Best Blog Posts, Favorite Posts
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